Winners and losers are largely defined, and
determined, by their thinking and attitude to life. Check out the list below
and see which side you think you’re on.
Winners
1. Take responsibility
for their life
2. Focus on solutions
3. View crises as
opportunities
4. Appreciate the
present, learn from the past, imagine possibilities and set goals for the
future
5. Take control of their
future; don’t just blindly follow the crowd, or do what others want them to do
6. Face their fears and
expand their comfort zone
7. Are givers not takers
8. Listen to others, and
weigh what they have to say
9. Look for opportunities
to learn (attend seminars, read books etc); find like minded people who can
help them get ahead
10. Helps others who need
help; help others to win.
Losers
1. Adopt a victim stance;
blame others for their problems, or when things go wrong
2. Focus on their
problems; whine, complain and stay stuck
3. Are fearful when faced
when faced with opportunities – and cling to the familiar and known
4. Are always harping
back to the past; never take the initiative or try to imagine a better future
5. Don’t know what they
want in life; just follow the crowd instead of thinking for themselves
6. Don’t take risks; are
afraid of failure; and retreat into their comfort zone
7. Are takers not givers
8. Are quick to speak and
to voice their own opinion – and are not interested in others’ points of view
9. Consider themselves
experts
10. Are only interested
in what will benefit them.
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