1. They are arrogant and have a sense of entitlement: This
is one of the key indicators of a narcissist. He or she believes that
they are special, superior to others and deserve to be treated better
than others. They like to brag of their successes and accomplishments,
and want everyone to tell them how wonderful they are. At social events,
they must be the centre of attention, and everyone must talk about what
he or she wants to talk about.
2. They use and exploit other people: The narcissist sees people as being there for them.
Hence, they use other people to help them reach their goals. Also,
they’ll often prey on others, and use them sexually. So they’ll charm,
seduce and use you – then rapidly move on. he damage, or the heartache
they may cause.
3. They lack empathy: The
narcissistic person can’t form relationships. To them feelings don’t
matter; they don’t have empathy. They don’t care about the damage on the
heartache they may cause. Also, they won’t support or help you when
life is difficult.
4. They have poor boundaries: The
narcissistic person won’t respect your boundaries. They’ll take what’s
yours and use it – and see that as their right. They’re rude, they
insult others, they comment on their looks, and violate the standards
that others see as just.
Some tips on dealing with a narcissist
(a) First, you need to recognise
your personal vulnerabilities so you don’t get taken in by a charming
narcissist – who makes you feel you’re special, or the best thing in
this world. (b)Second, understand this individual is not a normal
person. They won’t be there for you as they don’t have empathy. Recognise those telltale signs which indicate they’re self-obsessed.
(c) Third, establish and maintain healthy, stringent boundaries.
(d) Finally, if it’s always about them and
there’s no real give and take, recognise you should move on and get that
person out your life.
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